Most people can’t name what they need from a partner — not because they don’t know, but because nobody ever asked them properly. We ask. Then we measure the overlap, one requirement at a time.
A conversation, not a form. It asks follow-ups until a vague wish — "someone kind" — becomes something you can actually check.
There’s no "nice to have" column. Everything you tell us is treated as a requirement — and you can strike anything you didn’t mean.
Your requirements against theirs, row by row. Where you agree, where you differ — stated plainly, with no winner.
The book’s premise: an ideal relationship is a complete match between two complete lives, and the way to find one is to know precisely what you require before you go looking. Hundred runs that process for you, and every diagnosis cites the rule it came from so you can read the source yourself.
Read how the audit maps to the book →